Holiday Conflict
Let Christ increase while we decrease
As we enter into the holiday season the stress level of many family members increases, leading to conflict. Worries about the economy, interaction with certain family members who are not usually a part of our every day lives, holiday shopping obligations, all can lead to increased tension between members of families. Husbands and wives can find themselves arguing about petty things, children can become disobedient, and family arguments can overwhelm the peace that should reign during the holy season of the Fast and the upcoming Nativity celebrations.
Sometimes one little remark of a visiting relative can open old wounds, leading to a family argument. Adult children can find themselves acting like angry teenagers with one critical word from a visiting parent, leading to a meltdown and ruining a family dinner.
It is during the holiday season that you need to be vigilant, guarding your words and keeping your emotions intact. The holiday season should be a time when you work harder at keeping the peace, guarding your heart, and letting Christ rule your words and thoughts. Don't let the celebration of the birth of our salvation be trampled upon by the ego. Make sure Christ is glorified in your speech, your actions, and your thoughts. Make this season one in which you treat all your family members, friends, and coworkers with extra respect and love. Let Christ increase in our hearts, as we make ourselves decrease.
Sometimes one little remark of a visiting relative can open old wounds, leading to a family argument. Adult children can find themselves acting like angry teenagers with one critical word from a visiting parent, leading to a meltdown and ruining a family dinner.
It is during the holiday season that you need to be vigilant, guarding your words and keeping your emotions intact. The holiday season should be a time when you work harder at keeping the peace, guarding your heart, and letting Christ rule your words and thoughts. Don't let the celebration of the birth of our salvation be trampled upon by the ego. Make sure Christ is glorified in your speech, your actions, and your thoughts. Make this season one in which you treat all your family members, friends, and coworkers with extra respect and love. Let Christ increase in our hearts, as we make ourselves decrease.
Love in Christ,
Abbot Tryphon
Abbot Tryphon
Saturday November 26, 2011 / November 13, 2011
24th Week after Pentecost. Tone six.
St. John Chrysostom, Archbishop of Constantinople (407).Martyrs Antoninus, Nicephorus, and Germanus of Caesarea in Palestine (308).
Martyr Manetha of Caesarea in Palestine (308).
New Martyr Damascene of Mt. Athos (1681).
St. Bricius, bishop of Tours (444) and St. Quintianus, bishop of Clermont (525) (Gaul).
St. Euphrasius, bishop of Clermont (515) (Gaul).
St. Leonien of Vienne (518) (Gaul).
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